Elopement Checklist
Planning an elopement can feel simple, but there are still important details to remember. A checklist helps you stay organized and ensures your day goes smoothly.
As Connecticut elopement photographers and an officiant team, Brian and I guide couples through every step. Here is a complete elopement checklist to help you plan your intimate wedding.
Legal Requirements
- Marriage license – Apply at your local town hall and check timing rules.
- Officiant – Make sure you have someone to legally marry you.
Planning Your Ceremony
- Choose your location – Garden, park, waterfront, or meaningful spot.
- Personalized vows – Write vows that reflect your story.
- Ceremony script – Plan the flow of the ceremony with your officiant.
- Timing – Decide on the best time of day for light and privacy.
Photography and Videography
- Hire your photographer – Capture the moments that matter most.
- Plan portraits – Decide which locations and shots you want.
- Consider videography – Optional, but a great way to relive the day.
Attire and Details
- Wedding outfits – Dress or suit for the couple, optional accessories.
- Flowers or bouquet – Optional, but beautiful for photos.
- Rings – Don’t forget the rings!
- Props – Optional: blankets, signage, or small decorations.
Guest and Celebration Options
- Invite a small group – Close family or friends if you want.
- Virtual attendance – Stream the ceremony for loved ones far away.
- Meal or toast – Plan a small picnic, brunch, or dinner after the ceremony.
Final Tips
- Pack a bag with essentials: water, snacks, touch-up items.
- Check permits and location rules ahead of time.
- Relax and focus on each other. The day is about your love, not the details.
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